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Old July 29th, 2013, 09:34 AM   #9
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I hate the roller coaster that ttc puts us through. We have been ttc #1 since 2007, and there are times I feel like giving up but I don't know that I could ever really let go of it in my heart.
I really hope that something turns around for you soon.
thank you so much

I'm sorry to hear you have had such a struggle too.

I'm going to stomp my foot a minute and throw a fit. It's just not fair!!! There are people with no business having children having babies left and right.

And where are we? Stuck in the endless loop of TTC.

I really do hope you get your BFP and baby soon.


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Old July 31st, 2013, 04:00 PM   #10
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It is a very sucky roller coaster! I am sorry you are having such a hard time. We have been trying for 4 years for baby #2. I feel often that we should give up, but as soon as I think it I can't stand that thought so I come up with maybe different things we can try for the next cycle. I wish you lots of luck!


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Old July 31st, 2013, 09:22 PM   #11
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PumpkinZ I know that feeling... when you're about to give up, then you can't stand the idea of not trying one more time... Im also trying for baby #2.. I never though it could be that hard !!! and overwhelming !


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Old August 1st, 2013, 03:42 PM   #12
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PumpkinZ I know that feeling... when you're about to give up, then you can't stand the idea of not trying one more time... Im also trying for baby #2.. I never though it could be that hard !!! and overwhelming !
I never thought it would be this hard either. I hope you get your baby #2 soon!


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Old August 1st, 2013, 03:54 PM   #13
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I know TTC for this long is draining. DH and I have been trying for our forever baby since Jan 06 as well. I'll be 30 in 21 days and he's 31. Luckily he's been active duty the whole time, so we have had pretty good coverage and know what our problem is... there just isn't an easy fix for it that the military ins DOES cover, we'd still be out around $15k for honestly not muuuch better odds than we have trying on our own. My brother and his wife have been trying for even longer... since sometime in 2002, and she's 34 and he's 42. Strangely, it's two completely unrelated problems that my brother and I are going through. For each of us, our spouse is actually the carriers. They honestly can't tell them why during all this time she's never been pg one single time.... they are at the give up point sadly I wish I had some wisdom to offer you, other than, I've been there... I'm here to talk if you need to


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Old August 4th, 2013, 09:33 PM   #14
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PumpkinZ I know that feeling... when you're about to give up, then you can't stand the idea of not trying one more time... Im also trying for baby #2.. I never though it could be that hard !!! and overwhelming !
I never thought it would be this hard either. I hope you get your baby #2 soon!
Hope you get your baby soon !!!!! having the courage of being able to try and try make us strong and resilient !!!!!!! it is super hard but worthwhile


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Old September 19th, 2013, 05:55 PM   #15
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tessaglp, I know exactly what you mean about the Affordable Care Act- as the wife of someone who has had arterial blockages & clots, and cancer, I thank god for Obamacare. We would be so out of luck without it. hugs to you & hoping that you stay cancer free!

Do you live near a big city? The reason that I ask is that a lot of teaching hospitals do study programs, and some are working on fertility. Now, I don't know that I would jump at the chance of testing a new med or anything (that could be scary), but you never know. Our current insurance doesn't cover anything in terms of fertility treatments, and my ob/gyn/midwife suggested that if we have to go further than we can afford, this might be an option (we live in a large city with many hospitals & several are affiliated with Universities & do this type of thing).
It might be worth researching?
Good luck & baby dust.
Don't give up!!


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Old December 22nd, 2013, 06:40 PM   #16
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I too have been trying since 2006! DH and I just started a round of femara and bravelle and I triggered on Friday ...so I'm in the TWW..baby dust to you!!!


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