Scared...

[Ari&Me]

So my daughter is goin to be 2 in sept. and August 14th will mark a year since Michaela grew wings. I want another baby. Ariyana is out of the baby stage and she LOVES baby and i have the fever... but i am sooo terrified of losin another baby. I want another but the fear of losin another is overwhelming. For a long time i didnt even want to try for another baby. But i am past that stage now but Im still so scared of losing another baby. And I dont want to get pregnant again and be so scared of losin the baby. I learned that passing the 1st trimester doesnt guarentee a healthy baby.. until that babys born healthy is the only guarentee. hm... maybe im not ready yet? Will i ever get passed this fear?

[armychica06]

It will take time- I have miscarried before but I didn't even know I was pregnant until the doctor couldn't figure out why I was bleeding for 2 weeks straight. I was at the tail end of the miscarriage when I found out....

I worry about that with the one I am trying for now but really, there is nothing that you can do but try and pray for sticky.... Once I get a BFP, I am going to take the first 3 months easy, nothing strenuous and eat well and pray for the best.

[Ari&Me]

yeah your right. I just thought i was in the clear i made it out the first 3 weeks which i waited to announce i was prego til the 2nd tri. and then i found out 2 weeks later id mc. but i will def. take it easy the whole time this time if i get prego again.

im sorry for you loss.

[TaraLynneWeiss]

It takes time sweetie. I don't think you ever get over it, but I think time heals all wounds in a way. Yes there will be fear........but sometimes our greatest fears become our greatest accomplishments when we face them. I wish you nothing but the best and that the next time you see that BFP it is a sticky one.

[kaseylea]

I just wanted to send hugs....you will know when you are ready! I too hope when you are ready that it happens quickly for you and that it's a sticky one. Good luck!

[Joyfull]

I know how you feel. I've had a miscarriage and I'm currently trying again. I've talked to many women that have had miscarriages, and some say they see each doctor's appointment as a milestone. I think we all need to remember we are not alone and it's okay to feel scared.

[Ari&Me]

thank u ladies!

[kimpaque]

I had a miscarriage on October 7th. The doctor said i could try again after having 1 normal period but we've decided to wait until January to try again. It was my 1st pregnancy so I will be a little scared. What am I saying, I will be terrified. We just got to keep telling ourselves that everything will be ok. In my last pregnancy I read a lot of books, went on a lot of sites but this time I told myself I will just keep to myself and avoid scaring myself by things I read. Baby dust to everyone that is trying again after a loss.