Back when i first met my husband i knew pretty quickly that he was “the one”. The one i wanted to spend my life with, the one person in the world i would ever consider having a baby or two with. When we decided back in 2007 that we would start trying for ababy, we didnt realise just how long it would take and the long road we would be on. At first we thought it would happen pretty quickly so we tried the Natural way. That basically consisted of us having fun! When my first cycle ended with my period, i stayed hopeful, and moved onto the next cycle. I bought a bbt as i had heard alot of women used one, and set up an account with Fetility Friend where i input my temps each day, slowly i got the hang of temping. As soon as i got the hang of it i was obsessed to say the least, month after month i would analyze my chart, my CM, and the very negitive OPK’s i had taken. So i took a step back in the hope that maybe i was needlessly stressing myself. I took a break from all the charting, but it didnt stop it being there in the back of my mind.
Coming upon the year mark of us first starting to ttc, my cycles went insane. They were coming fast and furious. Every 2 weeks i had my period. I held out in the hope that it would correct itself. In the end i caved and spoke to my doctor. She ran a bunch of tests and refered me onto a specialst.
I am now seeing a specialist, who is running alot of testing on myself and my husband. Its been 21 months of ttc. And we hope that seeing this doctor will in the end bless us with a little miracle.
My husband has handed in a sperm sample and is due for another tomorrow. For more info on SA please check out these links
http://www.patient.co.uk/showdoc/23068840/
http://www.fertility-docs.com/sperm_eval.phtml
I have also had some testing done by my GP before we were refered onto a specialist which entailed a blood draw to check for hormonal imbalances. I will also have furthere tests taken after my period starts for ovulation testing. For more info on infertility testing please check these links
http://www.womens-health.co.uk/infertility3.asp
http://www.fertilityjourney.com/testingAndDiagnosis/index.asp?C=54151399807419675926
I hope to share as much of my experience with infertility and getting pregnant as possible with people who may end up going down the same road and to let them know they are not alone.
One way or another we will be parents!


June 23rd, 2009 at 9:44 pm
wonderful outlook.. one way or another you will be GREAT parents! I’m glad to be a witness to your journey! Godo Luck and God Speed!
October 8th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
thanks for sharing. I have been trying now for 2 years. I just joined hoping to get some advice and support on this.
I just saw a new RE after a year with another dr in my area. I have so much hope after seeing him that he will get to the bottom of what is going on and why we cant conceive.
I live in alabama near the coast and hope to find some other women near me going thru this also.
Good luck on your journey and thanks for sharing.
November 20th, 2009 at 4:48 am
Thanks for sharing this info,and good luck.
Regards
Carl.
January 18th, 2010 at 6:33 pm
I hear you when you say you thought it would happen so quick the natural way. I have been SOOO extrememly careful up until the last 6 months that I have been desperately trying to get pregnant. Now I wonder why I stressed about being so careful before!